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adoption advice: Alexis

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As part of National Adoption Month, I've been asking some of my past families about "what is your biggest advice for hopeful adoptive parents?" Alexis came to mind, as she is a new single mother through the miracle of adoption!  She jumped bravely into the process as a single woman, with the support of close friends and family by her side. She recently finalized the adoption of her sweet son Cohen.  When I asked Alexis her biggest piece of advice for hopeful adoptive parents, here's what she said..... Expectations!   The expectations I set during the adoption process made it more difficult when they weren’t met, but they made me turn to God, time and time again.  Whether it was an expectation set in regards to timing on completing paperwork, the number of cases coming through my inbox, responses from others involved in the process, information from an agency, a yes or no from presenting, birth parent communication, timing on delivery/baby arrival,